Even if you have asked him if he is seeing other people and he denies it, you can employ other methods to learn if he's telling the truth.In addition to trusting your instincts, observing his behaviors, listening to his words and even talking to his friends can give you a clue whether he is seeing other girls.It never occurred to me that his lens on our relationship might offer a different impression. I asked anyone who would indulge me on the topic, and I perused countless relationship threads on the web. And I waited and I waited -- for an answer to come to me, for the answer to come to him, or to read a story with predictive value. We also emailed at least monthly, usually more, and I'll admit I generally initiated contact.His face would light up when he came home at night and saw me. I wish I could say that eventually I gathered the strength to end it. Yet up until several months ago, our conversations and messages were still filled with his expressions of affection, love, and hope for a potential future. On Valentine's Day of last year, he said that the holiday "only made our not being together that much harder." "Thinking of you, Noof," he wrote a few months later.If I was a good girlfriend of yours, I’d probably list about ten reasons why he may still like you, that it wasn’t your fault, or even that you can do better. If a guy stopped texting you, it is probably best to not dwell on it. If, however, you want to make sure it doesn’t happen again, or you really want to get back into his good graces, keep these tips in mind if he comes back online or you start texting any other guy.Stick to these basic thirteen rules so they won’t go radio silent again The biggest problem with a text message or email is that it is not always read the way you mean.
To continue in your relationship, you and he must work toward honesty in words and actions.I stumbled across a picture of him on what appeared to be a date at an upscale charity event. As I perused our emails of the past year-plus, and recalled our meetings and conversations, I was floored.The timing of the event coincided with recent meetings we had, ones in which he had averred that he was not seeing anyone. With a sinking feeling, I checked her Twitter and Facebook accounts, revealing a series of pictures of them together dating back to the summer of the previous year. The outright lies were so numerous, and the sentiments he had expressed so ugly and misleading. Apparently, he felt ambivalent about a future with her and still unsure about his future with me.When texting a guy, follow these 13 general and basic rules, especially before you become an official couple.[Read: 11 moves to flirt with a guy over text effortlessly] #1 Less is more.